You Can Be Anyone You Want On Halloween

For ages girls have been wearing revealing costumes on Halloween. The idea that you can be anyone who you want and nobody will judge you has been the rule that most people follow. But what does it say about our society when girls are wearing less than what they wear to the beach?

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Some people say that it's empowering to women to be able to wear a sexy firefighter outfit, sexy cop, sexy (insert animal here), sexy anything pretty much. But what I don't understand is the argument behind that. Does the idea that you can really be anyone you want on Halloween and have nobody judge you actually go into practice? How do men look at women dressed in these costumes? Do they see these women for actual human beings with intellect and a brain? I don't think a guy looks at a girl dressed in a low cut leotard and bunny ears and thinks "Wow she's really empowered right now with that costume on. I wonder how she feels about the economy and climate change. I want to get to know her.".

Mommy Always Told Me That If I Was Ugly...

One day when I was about sixteen years old my mom and I were talking about our family friend whose daughter just got a nose job, and when I asked why she got one, my mom said that apparently Julie, the daughters name, just had a "horrible nose" according to my mom. Then, my mom told me that if I didn't have a chin or, like Julie I had a "horrible nose" she would get my plastic surgery to "fix" those unattractive features. Now, at the time I felt very comforted that my mom would be so willing to help me make myself more, of what my mom refereed to as "presentable" to the world.
My opinions have changed since I was sixteen about a lot of things. And plastic surgery has been one thing that I've had many changing and developing opinions about. Currently, my opinion on plastic surgery is that if someone was born with something that affects their ability to do normal everyday tasks, if someone is having a sex reassignment surgery, if they were in a bad accident and need to reconstruct their face or something along those lines then it's perfectly okay.
But what gets me and confuses me is when someone does it for cosmetic reasons only. To make them feel better about their body, aging, whatever it is. This one girl who I'm friends with lost about one hundred pounds and now her breasts aren't what they used to look like because, well, she lost one hundred pounds. Once she referred to them as looking like popped balloons. And as a fellow young woman in a world that tells us constantly what it is socially acceptable to look like, I understand her being self conscious about her breasts and body in general. But also, as a young women is it okay to show young girls who are growing up in a harsh critical society that if you don't like something about your body you can just pay some old white dude a bunch of money to go cut you up and "fix" yourself?

Heidi Montag, an actor from The Hills has gone through about twelve plastic surgeries. In my opinion I thought that Heidi was a very naturally beautiful woman before she got anything done. But something made her decide that she wasn't attractive enough. According to her surgeon many of these procedures were little "tweaks". Now, if they are just little "tweaks", are they really necessary? Does having your eyebrows raised about a quarter of an inch or less really that important in the whole grand scheme of things? I think not.

You Play Ball Like A Girl

I play rugby in my town and we have both a girls and boys team. Now, I don't want to brag or anything but the girls team is a lot better than the boys. We've won more games, participated in more tournaments, and we have raised more money. I mean really, we're an all around better team. However when we practice the boys team gets to use three quarters of the field, all of the balls except two (in total we have about ten), and they get treated more seriously then us.

I think that this is this way because of the stereotypes that get put on women. That women can't play as well as men, that women are weak, that women can't be as competitive or aggressive as men can be. Now technically, women cannot have as much upper body strength as men but that doesn't mean that we can't kick a ball as far or tackle someone well.

Something else that I have noticed about the boys team is that whenever we practice with them they don't play to their full capability. When I've gone to tackle them they don't try to run away they'll just stand there and don't do anything about it. It's pretty lame. I don't want to be playing against a mannequin. I believe that they play this way because of how boys are raised they are taught chivalry. Part of that being to not want to ever physically harm a girl, even when they play a game like rugby. Instead of finding this as being respectful, as some women and men see it that way, I find it rude and insulting. I am obviously there at a practice in order to actually practice and the boys team not wanting to play a real game with our team ticks me off. A lot of the time I feel that boys and men see women and girls as little dolls and if you touch us then we automatically break into a hundred thousand pieces. Which is obviously not how we work.

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